Unfortunately, conventional wisdom has it that women hate giving them. And, indeed, many women do. As with most sexual escapades, it all boils down to the person, chemistry and the heat of the moment. Sex is all timing and confidence.
I hate receiving oral sex from my boyfriend | Life and style | The Guardian
That bone was Greyworm, who is a eunuch, getting it on with the massively underrated Messandei. So instead, he went down on her. As I watched the scene, I found myself squirming with discomfort at the idea of having someone go down on you the very first time you had sex. It always seemed odd to me that oral sex came before penetrative, as if it were a lighter or lesser thing. Literally unthinkable. Which might, in part, account for why men still tend to have more orgasms than women. I had been with my husband then boyfriend for months before I felt comfortable with it.
I Don't Like Receiving Oral Sex, and There's Not a Damn Thing Wrong With That
Over my decade-plus on the dating scene, I carried a terrible secret. Or, at least, it felt like a terrible secret. And yet, I felt just as confused and ashamed as if any of those things had been true.
By Petra Boynton. My boyfriend is really keen to go down on me. Currently, popular culture, media and self-help sex advice sternly tells us we should enjoy ALL forms of sexual activity. In reality people have preferences. Some love giving and receiving oral sex, others only one of the two.